WTF

I recently read something about me and a few people I know. It's taking a tick to let it all sink in, and I still don't know what I am going to do in retaliation.

"So a blast from the past has re-entered our lives and I am a little on edge. Let's just say he promised he would stop talking to her again if she even tried the whole "do ever wonder what would have happened if we had stayed together" bs, but I have my doubts. She has never done anything that respected our relationship and I cant help but wonder if this time around she will. We have enough issues and things have finally begun to settle down and return to the norm after new baby and moving, etc. She scares me and I'm not afraid to say that, she scares me because he has never shown any form of restraint with her, honestly this is a first when it comes to her. Unless he's lying to me about the situation with her as he does other things. I wouldn't have even known they were speaking again if he hadn't left his IM thing open and she sent a message asking him if he had told me yet. What kind of shit is that, makes it seem like an affair. He had lied to me the day before about their contact, so what am I supposed to think. She has also befriended our oldest daughter, and I swear to god if she asks her even one question about James and I, shit will hit the fan. I'm fine with them gaming and even being friends, shit I'm ok with James and her being friends, I have to be, they talk all the time and as with everything else that involves him, it's shut up or get out. Enough ranting for now!"