The ride from hell is wroght with dangers

My Girlfriend just had an abortion. She had a cramp, she took a dump and that was it, no bleeding, no crying, no muss no fuss. Right? The next day she went to a clinic and the doctor confermed it. I have a hard time believing this. I want to but I am scheptical. Add in the pentiant for lying to get sympathy she has and I am really skeptical. As so are her female relatives. I want to talk to my mother, and get her point of view, but something she said to me early in my life keeps ringing in my ear. Almost deafeningly.
"The minute you don't trust your instincts is the moment you've made your first mistake."
No one else want's to stir things up and cause the drama that will be if she is questioned. I have to be. I have to be strong enough, if not for myself for my kids. I need to show them that you don't need to stand idle as life revolves around you. You have to go out and call the shots, you have to go and make things happen, take charge.
My gut tells me to get out from under the ragnes. I need to asert some control. My mind keeps telling me to leave her. I don't know if that's an instinct, a fear of things to come.